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Start 'em Young

There is something superbly exciting about an ice-cream shop!
Vanilla, Strawberry, Black Currant, Chocolate Chip, Butterscotch, Caramel Crunch, Crispy Chocolate Malt, Rocky Road, CafƩ Mocha, Rum N' Raisin...
Ummm...
Rum nā€™ Raisin he thinks, a CafĆ© Mocha for her.
And a Rocky Road for the little one.
A few minutes into enjoying their respective ice creams, the little one asks if they can swap the cones, for a taste.
ā€œOf course!ā€ she says.
ā€œHuh?ā€ He stares.
She gives him a look that says, ā€˜Trust me on this.ā€™
The little one tastes the CafƩ Mocha and makes a face.
Coffee is bitter.
Well, you need to grow up to appreciate it. She smiles.
Now itā€™s his turn. He isnā€™t really happy about this. A nine year-old isnā€™t a baby, exactly; but not all that grown up either.
Reluctantly, he gives the child a taste.
This time the face the child makes is even worse.
ā€œWeird!ā€
They laugh.
The child goes back to his Rocky Road. But curiosity persists.
ā€œWhy does it taste weird?ā€
ā€œItā€™s the rum,ā€ she says.
He gives her a look. She stays calm.
ā€œIsnā€™t it a bad thing?ā€ the child asks.
ā€œYes, its supposed to be.ā€
Satisfied, the child goes back to the Rocky Road.
Now, she makes to take the rum nā€™ raisin for a taste.
ā€œDonā€™t!ā€ Shouts the child.
Huh!
ā€œWhy?ā€ she asks.
The child says, ā€œBecause if you have it, then you cannot drive us back home.ā€
ā€œReally? Why?ā€ she asks.
ā€œDonā€™t drink and drive.ā€ the child shrugs.
ā€œAh,ā€ she says. "You are so right!ā€
She gives the cone back.
Then she looks at him. Smiles.
His frown eases and he smiles too.
There are no guarantees in life, he knows. But this, he thinks, is how you start young with this stuff.
Values, it is called. And it goes a long way.
Hopefully.



Pic courtesy: Pixabay.com 

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